Question: My 26 year old Christian son has just told us through an email me. that he is going to get married. He just met this girl 3 months ago. He has always wanted to be married and have lots of children. All of his friends are encouraging this marriage. He is a fine Christian. […]
Living with someone during the engagement
Question: Hello Gary and Marlene, I thank you for your response and prayers. I have some good news, but I did want to answer your question first. I did live with my husband during our engagement for about a year before we were married. We dated about 2 years, were engaged, and will be married […]
Oral sex and the Bible
Question: This is embarrassing, but I can’t get knowledge if this act of oral sex is considered immoral within the marriage. If two consenting adults, I was told, then it would be all right. What if one does not consent-namely the wife who is supposed to be submissive to her husband. Please help me!
Living with someone before marriage
Question: Is it ok for me to spend the night with my boyfriend on the weekends? It’s not about sex, it’s just about being near each other, since we don’t have a lot of time to give each other during the week, since we both work full time. I want to start living with my […]
Muslim marring Christian
Question: I really do not want to upset my Lord, but I tell you, that a Muslim man is the FIRST male that I have EVER gotten along so well with. He is unlike any male that I have EVER dated. I have been married before and my husband was “Christian” and put me through more […]
Dreams being intimate
Question: I would like to know what these particular dreams I sometimes have mean. I sometimes dream being intimate with my husband and I have always brushed it aside thinking it could be my subconscious. However, sometimes these dreams take a twist. I realize later that the person I thought I was being intimate with […]
Having a child outside wedlock
Question: I have a five year old daughter who was born outside wedlock. I have been raising her on my own and with the help of my parents from birth. Her father lives in another country, and father and daughter are still yet to meet each other. But, we are still very much in […]
Homosexuality and Sodom
Question: What is God telling us (in the following verses), beyond the obvious? Both cities where these events took place were totally destroyed. Did God provide the detailed description of these people’s sinful behavior so that we could conclude that EVERY city state in Canaan was guilty of this identical crime and MUST be totally […]
Adultery
Question: I just found out that my husband committed adultery. It has been going on for at least 6 months and we have only been married for 7 months. I have looked in the Bible, I am not very good with the Bible, and I have not found answers about what to do. I only […]
Same-Sex “Marriage”
The Supreme Court of the United States said that Same Sex “Marriage” is legal across the land. Some people say, “Well, if the Supreme Court says it is ok, then there must not be anything wrong with it.” No, it is not right just because the Supreme Court says it is legal to marry […]