Question: I have this friend that is bi-sexual last night she was hanging out with me and we had “sex” (if you can call it that) I knew it was wrong and I could almost hear God telling me not to do it and I did it anyways. God and I have had an on […]
I realize that I had no right/authority to divorce him
Question: Sir – I divorced my spouse of 26 years in 2007. He was verbally abusive and very mean spirited. I’ve since gotten into the Word (we are both Christians), and I realize that I had no right/authority to divorce him. I would love to reconcile with him, but he is seeing someone else now, […]
Committed adultery and confessed your sin do you have to tell your spouse?
Question: If you have committed adultery and confessed your sin do you have to tell your spouse?
I am a Christian woman, living with a non-Christian man.
Question: I am a Christian woman, living with a non-Christian man. Living together bothers me and I know it is a sin. I love him and want to marry him, but is it wrong when he is a non-Christian? If it is, how do you leave someone you’ve known for 12 years? I pray and […]
How far is too far to go (in premarital sex)
Question: You hear all the time about premarital sex. The question I get all the time is how far is too far to go. I don’t know how to answer that. It clearly says do not have sex before marriage. So is kissing wrong and ‘foreplay?’ Where do you draw the line?
I was once a prostitute (with follow up letter)
Question: I read your article, it was fantastic, and I wondered how you knew so much about the subject, but I bet you get email like that all the time! I was once a prostitute, I have been delivered by Jesus and he was my husband. Then I met my husband Eric, who just happened […]
Sleeping together, I did not get burnt completely, but I sort of did
Question: I was reading the entries on sleeping together but not having sex and I am sad because it is true. I did not get burnt completely, but I sort of did. We sort of did, and now I feel very bad. I don’t know how to go past this. I am truly ashamed, […]
Sleeping together with no sex
Question: What does the Bible say about “sleeping together.” I don’t mean sex. I mean 2 people snoozing in the same bed and waking up together. I have a few friends that don’t have sex but believe that it’s okay to sleep in the same bed. What scriptures can I use to prove to them […]
Not having sex, but living together before marriage
Question: What does the Bible say about not having sex, but living together before marriage? Answer: We have addressed this question in several different forms on this discussion page. God tells us that we are to abstain from all appearance of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22). The Bible also tells us to not cause a person […]
Living with someone during the engagement
Question: Hello Gary and Marlene, I thank you for your response and prayers. I have some good news, but I did want to answer your question first. I did live with my husband during our engagement for about a year before we were married. We dated about 2 years, were engaged, and will be married […]